Botanical name
Melissa officinalis
Also known as Melissa.
A calming herb that is useful for nervous stomachs, colic, heart spasms, relieving colds, flus, and fevers, plus a powerful antiviral, and soothing & uplifting tea for nervous tension, anxiety and depression.
Learn about Lemon Balm
Lemon balm hails from the Mediterranean, where it has been cultivated for around 2000 years! Its latin name ‘Melissa’ means ‘bee’, and it is definitely a bee attracting plant. Herbalist Avicenna recommended it “to make the heart merry”. Paracelsus claimed that Lemon Balm could completely revitalise the body, and royalty prized it to keep in good health.
Lemon balm is a common garden herb with a pleasing flavour, and is even gentle enough for children. It is a calming herb that is useful for nervous stomachs, colic as well as heart spasms. Its carminative action helps dispel gas.
The hot tea helps bring on a sweat that can help relieve colds, flus, and fevers. It is also a powerful antiviral, useful for mumps and other viral infections. Recently it has been found to be very effective in treating symptoms of herpes simplex, when used topically as an ointment, wash or poultice of fresh leaves.
Lemon balm makes a soothing & uplifting tea for nervous tension, anxiety and depression. Aromatherapists use the essential oil (or simply sniffing the tea or fresh leaves) to reduce nervousness, insomnia and depression.
Frequently Asked Questions
Are there herbs backed by science for depression?
Are there herbs backed by science for depression?
Yes. St. John’s Wort has the strongest research support among herbs for mild-to-moderate depression. Rhodiola, Ashwagandha, and also show evidence of stress and mood modulation, albeit with fewer clinical studies. Saffron has growing clinical evidence for improving mood and reducing depressive symptoms, while Lemon Balm may support mild anxiety and emotional balance, indirectly lifting mood.
What are the best herbal alcohol replacements?
What are the best herbal alcohol replacements?
Here are some of the best herbal alcohol alternatives that offer mood-enhancing, calming, or euphoric effects without the hangover:
- Kava – Deeply relaxing and mildly euphoric; great for social anxiety and unwinding.
- Damiana – Uplifting, heart-opening, and slightly aphrodisiac; perfect for connection and joy.
- Blue Lily – Dreamy, calming, and subtly euphoric; ideal for ceremonies or slow, soulful evenings.
- Kanna - Uplifts mood, and promotes relaxation without sedation or intoxication.
- Lemon Balm – Calming and mood-brightening; gentle enough for daytime.
- Passionflower – Helps with social nerves and overstimulation; grounding and relaxing.
- California Poppy - gentle relaxation and mood support without sedation.
- Hops - gentle calming and mild sedation without intoxication.
- Butterfly Pea - beautiful blue colour, uplifting addition to herb mocktails
Which herbs should I use for anxiety?
Which herbs should I use for anxiety?
For anxiety support, some of the best herbs include calming nervines which directly soothe the nervous system to reduce anxiety and promote relaxation, and adaptogens which help the body build long-term resilience to stress and balance overall mood and energy.
Some of our favourite herbs for anxiety include:
- Passionflower: Calms nervous tension and supports restful sleep.
- Lemon Balm: Gently uplifts mood and soothes the digestive system.
- Chamomile: Provides gentle relaxation and eases irritability.
- Kava: Deeply relaxes and helps with social anxiety (use cautiously).
- Skullcap: Supports nervous system recovery and eases mental overwhelm.
- Damiana: Uplifts mood, reduces social anxiety and opens the heart
- Blue Lily (Blue Lotus) – Mildly euphoric and heart-opening
- Ashwagandha: Builds long-term resilience to stress and balances adrenal function.
- Tulsi (Holy Basil): Uplifts mood and promotes emotional balance.
- Rhodiola: Energizes while reducing stress-related mental fatigue.
Choosing the right herb depends on your specific anxiety symptoms—whether you need gentle calming, mood support, adrenal balance, or social ease.
What are the best herbs for anxiety attacks?
What are the best herbs for anxiety attacks?
For anxiety attacks—which come on suddenly and feel intense—fast-acting herbs that calm the nervous system and ease panic are most effective. Here are some of the best ones:
- Kava – One of the strongest herbal relaxants. Calms the mind and body quickly, making it ideal for acute anxiety or panic. Best used occasionally. We recommend our Instant Kava for quick & easy preparation.
- Passionflower – Soothes racing thoughts and tension. Great for calming the nerves during high-stress moments or before bed. We recommend our Passionflower 1:2 Liquid Herb for ease of use & quick absorption.
- Skullcap – Eases sudden nervous tension, restlessness, and twitchy muscles. Can help slow mental spiraling. We recommend our Skullcap 1:2 Liquid Herb for ease of use & quick absorption.
- California Poppy – A gentle sedative that reduces emotional overwhelm and physical symptoms like a pounding heart or tight chest.
- Lemon Balm – Quick-acting and soothing for both the mind and digestion. Ideal when anxiety causes stomach upset or shakiness. We recommend our Lemon Balm 1:2 Liquid Herb for ease of use & quick absorption.
- Lavender – Both aromatherapy and internal use can rapidly calm the nervous system and reduce panic symptoms.
- Rescue Plus (Bach Flower Essence + Australian Bush Flower Essence) – Not an herb, but a classic fast-acting flower essence blend many find helpful in moments of crisis.
Common Uses
Anxiety, Breastfeeding, Cold & Flu, Cold Sores, Colic, Depression, Digestion, Digestive Complaints, Fever, Children, Gastrointestinal Disorders, Heart Palpitations, Indigestion, Urinary Tract Infections, Menstrual Complaints, Mood Enhancement, Nausea, Nervous System, Relaxation, Restlessness, Shingles, Stress, Tension, Trauma (Emotional), and Upset Stomach.Herbal Actions
Antispasmodic, Anxiolytic (Anti-Anxiety), Carminative, Nervine, Sedative, and Antiviral.Recipes
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Precautions
There is a theoretical possibility that it can interfere with thyroid medication, so caution should be exercised in this instance.
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References
Deni Brown (2002), New Encyclopedia of Herbs & Their Uses, p.235.
Kathi Keville (1991), The Illustrated Herb Encyclopedia, p.125.




